Constance Marie Wilkinson
October 30th, 1957 – June 14th, 2025
Constance Wilkinson, 67, of Seattle, parted this earthly realm on June 14th, 2025, surrounded by friends and family in her home. She fought bravely and hopefully after being diagnosed with stage four renal cell cancer in April of 2024. For those that knew Constance, she had an infectious enthusiasm for living and undying gratitude for life and its multitude of joys.
Born in Riverton, Wyoming, Constance lived on the family homestead before moving to Missoula, Montana at the age of 5. One of five children, there was never a lonely moment on the family farm. Her home was filled with music and books that moved her and shaped her perspective. Throughout her life, no matter the distance or time zone, she kept her relatives close in her mind and heart, and loved sharing stories about family traditions and the fun they had together. Family reunions and annual Christmas drawings were cherished rituals.
After graduating high school in 1976, she set her sights on Alaska with a plan to work hard and have an adventure while saving money for college. She fondly recalled being a “tough chick” while living in Juneau where she commercial fished in the summers and tended bar in the winters. Her chapter in Juneau lasted over a decade, and in that time, she developed a lifelong love for exploring untamed nature and being on the water. She left her mark on the city and its people; when she returned over 30 years later, she was recognized and greeted warmly everywhere.
Constance eventually made it to her longtime home of Seattle to pursue higher education and a career of service to others. She received a master’s degree in Speech and Hearing Sciences from the University of Washington (UW) before beginning an impactful career in health care as a speech-language pathologist at Harborview Medical Center (HMC). There she met her future wife and the love of her life, her “sweet Kyra Jo.” Leading by example with kindness, patience, and a smile, she was quickly promoted to manager of the Comprehensive Outpatient Rehabilitation Program (CORP). With a talent for uplifting and bringing out the best in others, Constance next became a clinical instructor for the Medical Speech Language Pathology Program at UW. She ended her working career as the Director of Rehabilitation Therapies at the VA Puget Sound Healthcare System which she referred to as her “dream job.” Constance made lifelong friends in every organization she touched. Beyond performing her roles earnestly and exceptionally well, she was a beloved and trusted mentor to countless individuals, and her positive influence created a ripple effect of benefit within the rehabilitation community in Seattle.
Constance’s vivacity could be seen in the sparkle of her bright blue eyes. Her warm smile was almost always accompanied by a happy laugh. She was passionate about building relationships and was an incredible host with impeccable style and taste – memories of joyous gatherings and connecting others to create new friendships were gifts that will continue to be enjoyed far beyond her time with us. She conducted over twenty wedding ceremonies for friends – a testament to the trust and intimacy of her relationships. She was most content in the company of her devoted wife, Kyra, with whom she was inseparable.
Many interests brought her joy – animals (especially dogs), music, literature, sailing, art, travel, but above all, she loved people and believed in their goodness. She had many nicknames, Con, Cob, Const and Stink. The most fitting, however, was “the Queen of Gratitude.” Always thinking of how to help others, she was active in her community and generously volunteered her time and resources to numerous non-profit organizations. She began as a singing member of the Seattle Women’s Chorus and soon became a Board member and the president of Flying House Productions. After retirement, however, there was less time for the rehearsals as she and her wife lived their dream to travel and sail extensively with their precious “sea dog” Remy accompanying them whenever possible. Her favorite trip was to Uganda and Rwanda where she completed four separate treks to see the mountain gorillas in their remote natural habitat. Despite her busy travel and sailing schedule, she found time to continue to give back to her community by joining as a Board member at Companis, a non-profit organization she was passionate about.
Constance was loved by many. She is survived by her wife, Kyra Becker, her brother Wesley Wilkinson (Jane Wilkinson), her brother Kenneth Wilkinson, her sister Holly Hoff (James Hoff), and her sister-in-law Donna Wilkinson. She was predeceased by her brother Daniel Wilkinson and her beloved dog Remy.
For the celebration of her life, Constance wished to host an event with “good red wine” to be served in stemware with a performance of “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” by the Seattle Men’s Chorus. Those requests will be honored at a gathering on September 21, 2025 at the Hall at Fauntleroy.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Companis.
When asked how we can honor her memory, Constance encouraged to us all to “live a life of gratitude, love, and forgiveness.”
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